Saturday, January 1, 2011

Are Dads Really Important to Their Daughters?

I often question why I have to ask myself if it is important to have your child's father involved in their life? Things go sour, you are now left single with a child to raise. The father may not always be pleasant, but you know that your daughter needs him. I know times can be tough with the ex and things don't always turn out like you expect them to. However, putting all the "drama" he may create aside, I find myself always looking for ways to learn how I can be better at being a Mom and dealing with him when he is not always the nicest.

Dr. Robyn Silverman, an excellent resource and writes: I’ve been receiving several questions about Dads lately—especially in the context of divorce, and how important it is for mothers to encourage their girls to retain a relationship with their Dads. Even when there is animosity and frustration between parents, a strong relationship between Dads and Daughters is vital. Here I talk about why it’s so important that fathers remain a prominent part of their daughters’ lives: http://www.drrobynsilverman.com/body-image/dear-dr-robyn-are-dads-really-important-to-their-daughters/

Loss of a relationship with fathers can lead to many problems including an increase in risky behaviors, eating disorders, and other negative outcomes. Given that the Powerful Word of the Month is Dependability, it’s time for both mothers and fathers to step up during divorce, and give their daughters the best possible opportunity to bond with both parent.

Dads, Daughters and Body Image http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2009/07/01/dads-daughters-and-body-image/

A great tool for any parent on Dad's and Daughters-visit http://www.thedadman.com/

A father's love is important!

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